- Obtaining a Divorce
- During the Divorce Process
- During and After the Divorce
- Other Specialized Services
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Specialized Practice in Divorce and Recovery from Divorce1 Obtaining a Divorce1. Collaborative Divorce helps resolve the ending of a marriage without resorting to adversarial techniques or tactics. It enables the divorcing couple to work as a team with trained professionals to settle disputes respectfully, without going to court. Collaborative Divorce helps contain conflict and stress and the spread of these factors to the children. Learn More 2. Divorce Mediation provides a structured process which helps a couple resolve issues in a divorce by reaching a mutually agreeable settlement. The mediator creates an environment where communication is facilitated and the couple can state their goals and define their mutual interests. This process works best when the couple is in general agreement about most aspects of the divorce. Divorce mediation is an alternative disputed resolution option in obtaining a divorce. In New York State divorce mediation is a voluntary, non-adversarial process for divorcing, divorced or unmarried partners who are in a dispute that requires a legal resolution. The divorce mediator assists the couple in reaching agreements. The mediator asks questions; validates and normalizes each person's points of view; searches for interests underneath positions they take; and assist the couple in generating options for resolution. Each person is encouraged to recognize the other person's needs. The mediator facilitates the process but is not invested in any particular outcome and usually does not offer advice thus allowing the couple to drive the settlement. Once an agreement is reached the couple meets with separate attorneys to review the settlement and be advised of their legal rights. In New York State the divorce mediator is someone who has completed at least 40 hours in an approved training program. Many divorce mediators are attorneys or mental health professionals. The consumer (or referring professional) should determine that the mediator has an appropriate professional background because this role is unregulated in New York State. 1. Parenting Coordination is a child-focused alternative dispute resolution process for those parents who have difficulty implementing their parenting plans because of the ongoing conflict between them. Learn More 2. Divorce Coaching helps individuals and couples improve communication, problem solving and negotiation skills to manage conflicts that interfere with the divorce process. People learn to present their concerns in ways that are more likely to be heard and acted upon in the settlement. They also learn how they may be unknowingly hampering the divorce process. Learn More 3. Consultation for Attorneys provides information about the clients and the best ways psychologically to work with them and represent them. The strengths and weakness of a case from a forensic psychologist's perspective are given along with an estimation of how a forensic evaluation may affect the case. Learn More 4. Pretrial Co-Parenting/Child Specialist provides information on children's needs and assistance resolving parenting issues in attempt to reach a workable settlement. 1. Parenting Coordination enables high-conflict families to resolve recurrent disputes regarding a parenting plan. Functioning as a neutral-third party I assist the parties to implement the parenting plan, and where appropriate monitor compliance with the plan. I also may monitor psychological counseling for the children or manage cases when a parent and child are rebuilding an interrupted or damaged relationship. Working in this role I am appointed by the Court or stipulated to by the parents. Note - Parenting Coordination is used during and after the divorce. Learn More 2. Therapeutic Stabilization of Children in Divorce when there is a divorce and the parental conflict has an adverse impact on their children, I work with the children, individually and as a sibling group, to help them adjust to the parental conflict, pressures from the divorce and the changes in the family structure. Learn More 3. Therapeutic Stabilization of Parents when parental conflict adversely impacts the children, the desired route may be to work directly with the parents. For example, when the children are very young and the parental conflict is severe. 4. Co-parenting Coaching when a focus is needed on the couple being able to parent their children together as a separated or divorced couple. 5. Post-divorce Conflict Resolution is used when a focus is needed on the divorced parents being able to keep their conflict under control and where necessary to make joint decisions regarding the children. • Therapeutic Visitation - when a parent needs active feedback to learn parenting skills or has little awareness of their inappropriate behavior • Evaluation of the need for supervised visitation - determine whether supervised visitation is needed and/or the conditions under which supervised visitation should be reduced or eliminated. I advocate that when supervised visitation is ordered, mechanisms and criteria with which to evaluate the need for continued supervised visitation should be established. • Determination of a visitation schedule - based on a developmental and psychological needs assessment of the children • Therapeutic Reunification - when the custody of the children has changed to the other parent or when the children are re-establishing contact with a parent after an extended period of absence • Emergency Case Stabilization - when the family or a member of the family is in crisis 1Note these services are focused on relationship issues and not covered by insurance. | ||
